Practicing Gratitude
When I was in college, I was walking across from a bulletin board, and something caught my eye. Normally I would continue to walk, but something told me to move closer. What caught my eye was a picture of someone holding an umbrella in a thunderstorm. The caption underneath read “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you make of it.”
Throughout life I’ve come to think back to this quote, and it still resonates with me to this day. Life can throw obstacles in our path, and it might seem like we’re constantly on the grind trying to survive. Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed and frustrated because life doesn’t go our way. Like difficult events, rain is normally associated with sadness, grief, or despair. The challenges and obstacles in life, like the rain, can seem like it pours and pours without end in sight. Sometimes it seems like we can’t even catch a break when we’re pushed to our limits.
Although we can’t change life’s events, one thing that we can change is our outlook on life and adopt an attitude of gratitude. Gratitude is a positive emotion in which we express thankfulness and being appreciative to life’s events, even during difficult times. Studies show that practicing gratitude can help people feel positive emotions, savor good experiences, and build strong relationships.
If we look at the rain and our perspective, we can adopt gratitude with our perception of rain and our association with it. For example, the sound of rain is peaceful and therapeutic. Rain is essential for supplying water and feeding plants, so it’s a natural part of existence. And finally, we know that if it does rain, the sun will eventually burst from the clouds, and afterwards a beautiful rainbow will form.
Below are some tips on how to practice gratitude daily. Just know that a little practice can go a long way to shifting how we think and feel.
Start a gratitude journal:
One of the easiest ways to start a gratitude practice is to create a gratitude journal. You can have prompts such as what went well today, name 3 things you’re grateful for, or who in your life can you express gratitude towards? Writing it down will help you remember what you already have, and what we already have is more than enough.
Reframe difficult events and find opportunities for growth:
I don’t disagree that life is hard and difficult at times. However, I’ve noticed that I’ve personally grown the most during challenges. Whether it was graduating college, buying my first home, or learning how to play a new sport, all of these events shaped me to who I am today. Consequently, think about an event that has given you discomfort and see if you can find a learning lesson from it.
Express gratitude to others:
Finally, research shows that when we express gratitude towards others, both you and the person demonstrate positive emotions and feelings. Doing small gestures such as telling someone why you’re thankful for them or giving someone a genuine compliment will do wonders to making someone feel good.
I wish everyone a great day and I’m thankful you are reading this!